What I Wish All Lesbians Knew About Health Care


By Dr. Sheryl Ross | Originally Published April 2, 2015 on MBG

A lesbian patient recently asked if she needed to see me less often than straight women since she was at a lower risk for sexually transmitted infections. She figured she needed fewer Pap smears.

Actually, no.

Lesbians and bisexual women need to see their doctor with the same frequency as heterosexual women. The Pap smear, breast and pelvic exams, and mammogram screenings are done at the same interval regardless of your sexual orientation.

The medical community needs to lead the way with sensitivity.

In speaking with many lesbian and bisexual women in my 22 years as an ob-gyn, I’ve learned that some have felt apprehensive about getting health care because of discriminatory attitudes, concerns about confidentiality, and uncertainty about their specific health care needs.

The medical community should take the lead by learning sensitive ways of asking necessary medical questions and building trust with all patients. Unfortunately (and understandably), it’s rare for a doctor to ask if someone is straight or gay. While doctors do ask patients if they’re sexually active, a lesbian may say yes without disclosing the gender of her partner. She might not feel ready to come out to her doctor.

From a medical standpoint, if a doctor knows whether a patient is gay, straight, or bisexual, the doctor can be more sensitive and thorough with follow-up questions.

For example, if the doctor knows you’re a lesbian, she won’t ask if your boyfriend wore a condom during sexual intercourse. In that case, the conversation might shift to questions like “Do you share sex toys? Do you use dental dams for protection against STIs?”

If a patient discloses that she is sexually active, it’s important that the doctor’s next question be, “Is it with a male or female?” Hopefully, everyone will feel comfortable disclosing her sexual preference even if she’s not 100% sure of what that is.

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